Don't you ever wonder why the apple scenario in the Garden of Eden, why do we need Jesus, and why does He love us so much? Why do bad things happen to God's People if He loves them? Most importantly, Why does He love YOU so much?
When I try to understand this concept, I think about love relationships in general. I do this not to cheapen the great mystery that the Bible talks about. Instead, I do it to give a concrete example that we can relate too. We all want to be loved. We want this person to be one who is faithful, always there for us, one who listens, and one who chooses us over their friends or hobbies. I'm being real here! You know it's true. Girls want guys to drop everything for them because they love their girl so much. Girls crave to be in the personal space of their boyfriend or husband and want to hear the words: I love you baby over-and-over, which means a lot and not in one moment but over many moments. Girls long for an emotionally loving and attentive boyfriend or husband who is a good listener.
Guys want their girls to believe that they (boyfriends and or husbands) know everything and that his gal will cling on every word that he speaks, though often they are few. These great guy-keepers are willing to do whatever it takes for his girl; they would even put themselves in front of a bullet for her. In fact, if he loved her that much, he would save her, he would be willing to die for her. In turn, He wants a girl who does not whore herself out. Forgive me, I had to say it. One who dresses for Him but shows the goods (valuables) in private and after they are married, otherwise it's fornication (sex before marriage-an unholy union that has to be broken in prayer once a break up occurs because the two become one and not three)[Christ is the added ingredient that makes it a holy union}. She is not advertising for every man to see what she has because she knows that her beauty is defined by who she is in Christ and not how she looks. She is modest, not frumpy, and dressed with taste. She saves her virginity for him for their wedding day; likewise, he respects her. This is the plan.
Now if we make a mistake, we can correct it and turn to God, but nowhere in the Bible does it say that fornication is okay. It also says to avoid the appearance of Evil. I am just telling you what the Bible says. So living together is not right either. It looks they are committed and together, but they are not in the eyes of God because they have an unholy union. Why set yourself in a bad situation that is not honored by God. I don't care if you see people living together and sleeping around. It's not normal; it's not what God intended for us. Read the Bible, you'll be informed. Man's plan will never work; it goes back to the choice in the garden. Yet, so many people are so stubborn and would give in and live their life in a way that is NOT pleasing to God and themselves. I'll say it again: there is a way that seems right unto man, but they end there of is death.
And so looking at God's plan, we see the mystery, the goodness of God, and the amazing plan of God revealed in how the relationship between God (male -groom) and Body of Christ (female- bride) was intended to be. God doesn't want us to settle for anything less in our personal relationships because he has experienced a love with his bride so deep that he wants us to experience the same thing with a person on earth, which is a deep holy union of love.
So, we should look for mates (people we might marry, which is anyone we date) that have the characteristics of God or His Bride depending if we are male and female. On the other side of the coin, we need to ask God to help us be that mate that God has designed us to be. This can happen after you marry, though it will cause more conflict, or you can ask God to show you today how to be that person towards Him (God) first! This means if you are in relationship right now that is off balance, it's time for you to correct that relationship a.s.a.p.
Putting God first and learning to be a good spouse (husband or wife) to God is your first role BEFORE marriage. Adam and Eve made some choices in the garden that effect you and me today. Though God designed us to love Him and live for Him, the fall in the Garden of Eden set things out of order. If we are honest, we see that we are still falling short today. He gives us chances for us to show that we love Him throughout the day. How we love God or don't love enough is often revealed in our daily choices. And you can say yes to God and draw a line in the sand and make it right.
There is always a choice before us: God wants us to live for Him, fellowship with Him, and love Him above all things. This is how he set the plan up from the beginning. Because of man's fall in the garden (Old Testament), Jesus came back to save us and to restore our relationship back to the Father {God}(New Testament). It is finished! Once we really get this, we can all come to God as we are and find forgiveness. Once we are truly restored, people, drugs, drama, money, etc hold no power over us because we love God more than anything. We set our life up around Him. That’s all He wanted from the start of time: Love. That is is who He is and was since the start of time: Love!
I mean come on, Mary was pregnant and even then there was no room in the inn to have a baby born- Jesus the Son of God is getting dissed from the get go. There was no room for Jesus to be born; yet God provided a humble stable. Yes, it was part of the plan, but I am making a point. You know how you feel when someone treats you like that! And His feelings get hurt over and over when we dis Him like that. It makes Him so sad! Is there room in your heart for Jesus? Is it open to Him? I mean all the places. Hmmmm. I'll just keep this lust over here, or this nasty rap swearing music on the side, or I'll just sleep around, whose gonna know. I'll hide these rooms from God. NOT- He is bigger than Santa, He sees it all! Before you know it, you'll have more rooms of sin and distraction and less of Jesus. And you guessed it, you'll fall out of love- you'll try to divorce, break-up whatever, but God never stops loving you and running after you. That’s the world’s love; He doesn’t love like that!
In the book of Genesis, it says that God walked in the cool of the garden. This means that Adam and was in the Garden, fellowshipping with God though Adam could not see Him, and spending lots of time with Him. This word fellowship means to be friendly and to get to know one another. God was full of such love and desire to set His love upon someone that He made Adam for fellowship with Himself. Later, He created Eve for Adam because he saw and understood that was still lonely and needed a helpmate. This reveals the Love and sympathy of God towards his people. He was also generous in giving them a wonderful place to live. God saw that it was good, but He did have the tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil in the garden. This tree tested their true heart desires. They listened to a serpent instead of God. They were tricked, but this choice revealed that they were not totally committed to God. This one mistake kicked them out of the garden.
Eating the apple was bigger than the action. It meant that now they would go to the tree for knowledge and fellowship. They would no longer revere (honor) God as all knowing. In fact, as soon as they did this they realized they were naked. Before that, there was no shame in their pure living quarters.
And so we come in time today, and see that man still needs to be reconciled back to God, that this love relationship must be restored. Though God is wooing us into relationship because He loves us from the start of time, we have a choice whether to love Him or love Him back. I don't even understand why people pretend to come to church and love God. Stop it. Draw a line in the sand and live for Him. Just stop it already! Didn’t he love you enough for you to serve Him?
How do your choices line up with God's plan? How do you or do not love God by your choices? The beautiful thing about God's plan is that He sent his son Jesus. He sent his own Son down to earth as a baby and later, allowed Him to be crucified so that that the God of the Old Testament would no longer have to require yearly sacrifices. His Son became the sacrifice for you and me.
Whenever we make one of these bad choices by accident, when we fall short like Adam and Eve, Jesus becomes that sin for us when we repent and we are made right with God. This happens at salvation, but it should also happen when we consider our actions and compare them to what God wants for us and the Bible.
We can take this a step farther and learn to forgive others when we are wronged because we understand how Christ felt when He was mistreated, yet He still went to the cross. He said, "Father forgive them; they don't know what they are doing!" There are people out there doing things to you or have done things to you that are wrong. They did not wake up and say today I am going to molest or rape so and so. Today I am going to lie or spread drama about so and so. They are being driven by the serpent; they need to be restored back to God.They made a choice; you were effected by it. God still loves you and wants to reconcile with you and them.
If you say that God does not love you like that and that this is all about Adam and Eve and that He doesn’t love me because bad things happened to me or people in my life. You are wrong, the Bible tells us in the book of Psalms that He created you in your mother's womb and that He knows all of the hairs on your head. God is love from the start of time until now, and He is still looking for a people who will love Him with their entire life. What does that mean to you? Think about what you want in a relationship. God says me first young man, young lady. He wants you to fall in Love with him all over again. For some, you feel God tugging at your heart and know that right now you are making the first step and saying, God I know you died for me and my sins; I get it today; I really get it! I need you and want to be in right relationship with you. I have fallen and sinned, but right now, I ask you into my heart for real. I'm not just scared that I will go to hell if I don’t; I see that there is so much more to your Love. Come in Lord Jesus and be my first love. Right now in Jesus name. I want to walk in real loving relationship with You Lord.
If we can wrap our hearts around His Love, we can make a difference in this world because of His love working through us. You can’t do that until you make things right!
Please email me at illyguana@hotmaill.com with any comments etc.
Pastor Illy
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